Welcome

This blog is for chronicling and motivating me in my cold approaching women in public places.

Although the sex factor is undeniable, my main purpose in doing this is accelerated personal growth. I want to develop social poise and self-confidence in as short a time as possible. And I want to learn about other people and see 'what is out there'. It's sort of like going traveling except I will be traveling from soul to soul rather than city to city. Much cheaper too :).

I do believe that the skills I will develop in approaching and chatting with women will transfer over to all aspects of my life and I will happier and wiser for it.

I am a painfully shy individual to the point where I don't like walking into bars. However, through meditation I have managed to control that to the point where it won't be a major hindrance. My last tactic in overcoming inhibition and fear is the following frame: if I want to talk to a girl, it will all be over 2-15 minutes. No matter how bad and embarrassing and awkward a time I having, it will fucking be over in a couple of minutes. In fact I look at my watch before I approach and if say it's 8:15 I say to myself, 'well, life is going to suck until ~8:20. Then it will be normal again.' I have found it is a powerful tactic in overcoming initial shyness.

So my goal is to approach one women everyday for the rest of the summer. Maybe if I get good at it more per day. At the end of the summer I will have approached 60+ women, have 60+ stories to tell, and they will all have been recorded right here.